Love in Internet
How many of us have fallen in love online? Or did know her current husband here?. Since the Internet emerged and was spread in the world (that about 13 to 15 years ago) should be many pairs with the same story. Some have married, others just have a platonic love. In some cases it has worked and not in others.
Like everything, there are always pros and cons. We must ask ourselves what we are looking for and why you are seeking on the Internet. To this we must always add a degree of caution if you’re really looking for a lasting relationship with someone, because many people use this medium to lie and maybe you’re falling in love with a ghost or a fantasy that does not exist. I found a good article by Dr. Trinidad Perez Aparicio, Clinical Psychologist, Center for Psychology Alarcón, Granada, she tells us the advantages and disadvantages when it comes to meet potential partners through the Internet.
Advantages
1. The chance to meet many people, no matter their economic status, family background, geographic location, etc..
2. The chance to meet someone with similar tastes and concerns of our own.
Disadvantages
1. Very common deception. What many people says about them self are not always what really is.
Secret Relationships
Many people who have relations with someone on the Internet does not want to be known for the following reasons.
1. For shame. Many were ashamed that are known to have a romantic relationship with someone who knows only thru a computer and what the person has tell of himself.
2. Distrust: many of them do not believe everything that the other person tell of himself.
3. They already have a couple in real life: and of course do not want you to know.
It is definitely a very interesting topic, as I wrote above and the fact of finding partner for Internet has its advantages and disadvantages to consider. What are your opinions? Write me your comments and experiences.
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