These neurotransmitters are activated when a coded image as shown in the sexual field of sense perception or imagination, speaking in orgasm.

The feeling of relaxation and well being of another hormone, endorphin causes that has a narcotic effect and calming. All these findings have led to further research regarding the effects of sexual response in humans.

There is almost no difference between sex in the company practiced or carried out in solitude, the satisfaction of both behavior from the subjective may not be the same, but physically it is. The blood of a person who just masturbate and that of someone you just sleep with the love of his life have the same composition.

The first conclusion: The disease resistance is closely related to sexual satisfaction. Sexual desire, arousal, orgasm and relaxation occur in the body of those who feel, undeniable biological advantages.

All those who practice a satisfactory relationship with themselves or with a person of your choice, at least twice a week, a 30% increase in immunoglobulin levels (which advocates of infections), which in turn fosters a greater resistance to disease and makes wounds heal faster.

The well-being, relaxation and control of the sadness that produce the hormones produced during sex in addition to the immunological benefits, recently discovered.

In addition to the discoveries of Michael Liebowich, new dehidroepiandrostona also found endocrine and oxytocin which promote language learning and longevity.

A game is beneficial to health

On the other hand, a second conclusion: have sex, semen quality improvement. The study conducted in Australia by Dr David Greening, IVF specialist, concluded that after seven days of having sex, daily, improves sperm quality.

“It seems safe to conclude that couples with relatively normal semen parameters should have sex every day for a week before the date of ovulation,” said Dr. Greening, of Sydney IVF Institute. The idea would be to improve the quantity and quality of semen before attempting conception.

During the investigation it was found 118 cases of men with serious problems in the DNA of their sperm. After 7 days of daily ejaculation, your semen level had risen, while the DNA fragmentation index, a very common injury, had been reduced from 34 to 26 percent.

According to Greening, improvement in semen is due to frequent ejaculation reduces the amount of time in which sperm are exposed to potentially harmful molecules such as reactive oxygen, which is found in the testicular ducts.

“In the context of assisted reproduction, this simple treatment can help improve the quality of semen and finally to achieve a pregnancy,” said Greening.

These great discoveries reaffirm that nearly a century ago Wilhelm Reich discovered when we spoke of the “Function of the Orgasm” on human happiness and freedom, but to make these discoveries that come from USA, individualistic and productive vision does not change Romantic and pleasant to have sex.

To attempt to justify having sex for a health reason, is so pernicious as to say that making love is only for reproduction. We may be prescribed by the doctor: “two orgasms twice a week.” But be aware of the benefits of having sex without falling into the trap of trying to “tame” sex into something in the service of something, whatever it is.

Sex is, in marriage, a no fixed rules, like all games in this category, has the ability to return to the time of the “useless”, as “unnecessary”, the fun, what is simply because it does, ie, while the long summers of childhood, to “Paradise.”

Perhaps the virtues of sex, those who speak the students, whether they make love for a few seconds ago we own the world. If we turn it into a recipe, will certainly lose all their benefits. First, have fun, find pleasure, then, be aware of all else: a feeling of wellness, disease resistance, better semen quality, longevity, ability to learn …

PsicoAyuda Team

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Today I read a post from a friend of mine who dated a girl. The girl said that for now only wants friendship. Now he is in fear of falling into what many men think is the most formidable female area.

The “Friend Zone” is the area of good male friends, those buddies brothers whom we confess our secrets and fears as a friend from school and why we feel an affection as if they were our sisters and whom we never go through the mind having a relationship of love and sex with them. According to some people once they fall into this area do not go forever.

I laughed at the things he writes. Many would say that is another language we use to tell a man who does not want anything serious with them. This is partly true, especially if you see the poor gentleman melted by you, and you do not like but do not want to hurt his feelings, but there are situations that you really want to be a friend to learn more about that person.

Each situation is different, man and woman are different. Men! this can also be a sign that says: “Seduce me“!

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How to know if a man likes you

There he is: yes, the man of your dreams. He is sitting diagonally to you, read some notes on a cafeteria table that both frequent. Suddenly, his eyes meet yours. Produced some sparks and then turns his attention to his notes. Did he sent you a signal?

It is not easy to decipher the mind of modern man, but learn to decode what his nonverbal communication really means is a valuable asset in the game of love. Therefore, in order to learn to read well to modern man, consider the following signs.

Signs to know that your man likes you

Leaning towards love
If a man is interested in you, you’ll see that your body will tend to yours. This movement can occur in very subtle or extremely noticeable, it could be almost falling over you. It’s his way of letting you know that you want to be even closer to you. Once your interest is reciprocated, it will be difficult to separate.

Note that a vital aspect of the physical nature of romance is reciprocity. Translation: match their progress with yours. This not only realize your own interests, but will serve to keep his.

The eyes say it all
Surely you’ve heard the old saying “The eyes are the windows to the soul.” If he is interested in you, he focus your eyes and remain in that position. Correspond his eyes with a controlled smile and let them know that you are also interested. Soon he will sit next to you …

Touching is good
If a man is interested, then he wants to be as close as he cans. Also, he will use every chance you get to touch. Possibly your arm, your leg or your knee. What matters really is that contact is made with love. It is simply another way of letting you know he feels something special for you.

“What a coincidence you’re here!”
The matches are not as frequent as they seem. Forget about the chances and focus on the causalities. After all, those “happy accidents” are not so accidental. Perhaps his surprise appearance at your favorite coffee shop is a sign that he is trying to connect with you, but he does not want you think is a stalker. Take this as a positive sign and makes the most of your next meeting. You may find you have more in common than a love of coffee with cream.

Listen carefully
How to know if you have the undivided attention of a man? Very simple: when he is not talking about himself. The next time you’re in a bar, listening carefully to what is said in any table full of men and will not do more than talk about themselves.

For a man to shut your mouth and listen to what you have to say, you know, must be love … or at least, a powerful attraction. When he feels that he has found the right woman, he turns off he’s system and will chatter all ears.

Man participates in your activities
Let’s face at this point: perhaps he’d rather be watching the finals of the soccer championship and even a first round match of tennis masters, but it is important to note those occasions when his interests or passions resigned for escort or share your things.

For example, he’ll feel good to watch the romantic movie you’ve chosen for Saturday night, though he would have liked Hard to Kill 4 -, or will not put a face to accompany you when to the mall to shop. If he prepares popcorn, or if he hold with you to see showcases to look at shoes and handbags, you can give him some extra points.

He laughs with you
Men tend to have a close relationship with sense of humor, and women often complain that they do not take them seriously. In fact, many hate to achieve something funny in every situation. But is he able to laugh with you? Is he able to laugh at your jokes? Do you understand the difference between laughing all the time and laugh with you?

Well, if he laughs when he is on your side, it means that both have a similar sense of humor and, most important, that goes really good with you.

Confidence man
If a man is attracted to you, then he will get nervous when he see you. Her cheeks are rosy and his heart will accelerate as soon as he know he will see you somewhere. Look for signs like unexplained laughter, sweaty palms and nervous movements. Men always want to be in control of his emotions, but women prefer to be in charge.

If he has problems to cope with natural or at least as he always does, possibly because you make him nervous or  generate him a certain state of excitement. What can you do? You’d better help him relax, and he appreciate being a good person in whom you trust.

The feeling is mutual

Men and women have very different brain chemicals. Women are verbal, Men not. Man is dominated by visual desires, while women tend to be by the deepest emotions. Women are taught to express their feelings in a rational way and not feel guilty about cry, while men tend to be more irrational and repressed.

Consequently, it is a highly significant achievement if you get a man to open up and express their emotions. Discuss your feelings is a very powerful common experience, that helps build a relationship and better prepare for whatever challenges the future may present.

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Ideal man

The truth is one: all women want to find the great man-understand perfect man, or at least, perfect for a woman. However, how many times this copy that looks great in the beginning -and this has nothing to do his look- turns into a disaster in a short time?

Enough of bad boys, babies of mother, and so on. Take now a piece of paper and prepare to compile a list of features that he must meet to be the right man. When you know the man, whether online, in store, at the bar, at school or at work, you should feel that he wants you.

This sense should be given a look, a touch, a compliment, curiosity, or attention to detail. And it must, within a short period of time, be communicated personally-not through an instant messenger, text message or by phone. Definitely should be supported by their desire to make a plan or progress in the relationship.

If he is not interested enough to call and make a plan, then there is no real desire to invest his emotions in a relationship. By contrast, calls, sending e-mails and text messages do not represent true continuous contact. He can not touch you, see you, adore you or get to know just in words or through a computer screen.

Short after you know him, you need to discover if  he succeeded  at least in one area of  his life. For example, if  he have been to school, now must have a good job or a good car. If  he have inherited the business from their parents, must have learned to manage it successfully. Or if a member of a football team, he should know well what a team player.

His efforts continue to generate new opportunities, new skills, new challenges, or new possessions. In addition, he is progressing, which is contrary to degenerate. If he is a real man, his words are always backed by action. Surely, a man in his senses will not tell you “I’m not sure where this relationship is going, and then continue calling you and having sex with you.

He does not send mixed messages and difficult to decipher. A healthy man says what he means and means what he says. And not hide ulterior motives in their messages. And the words he says are backed by their actions that match. Even if he can not give a guarantee, the relationship is always progressing.

In addition, you’ll never find calling at two in the morning because you’re afraid to be with another woman. Nor never find it saying he wants to marry you, but will leave you in charge of planning, spending, and so on. If this is the proper relationship, you will feel something mutual and reciprocal.

Does he fails to recognize when you bring him emotional support? Does he reward you with small gifts or pampering surprising? Did he buy the ingredients to make your favorite drink? Do you feel that what he gives is as valuable and meaningful as what you offer?

For example, if you have a free one Saturday night, will prepare the plan you can both enjoy? If your car breaks down, “he’ll come pick you up? If you have a problem, it will help you solve it? Is he as committed as you are? Healthy relationships are based on mutual give and take. What you give and what you get should have an approximate value.

If all you get from this relationship include e-mails, text messages, occasional plans, or security that you will not be alone on Saturday night, you are not getting what you need. If he’s the right guy for you, he has good friends and you feel comfortable with the way he is when he is with them.

Whether at the bar, in an informal meeting or a presentation at work, you know he is the same person you love and know, so when he is with you or without you. When you are away from your sight, he will not turn into another person-for example, will not change his manners because you’ve gone.

Moreover, when you take him out with your friends, he will know how to be polite and charming, always trying to generate good times among those present. If he is the right man, he appreciates you for who you are.

Beware of the man whose perception changes whenever you deviate from your expectations.

For example, you dress a certain way and he refuses to take your arm or make a compliment, or gain weight and he stops having sex with you. Can he make you feel pleasure, whether you’re with low-rise jeans or just out of bed? Does he spend time with your family and tries to integrate and feel part of it?

Is he interested in you from the spiritual standpoint? Or do you feel you must suppress your personality in order to obtain approval? Even as it relates to your sexual preferences, you should feel free to reveal without fear of losing her affection. The right man will never make you feel bad about yourself.

Even in the midst of an argument, he will be able to see the good and bad in you. For example, he will not stay mad at you once the dispute is over. And he will move instead of staying curled up in the bad feelings from the past. He loves you and sees you as a good person, no matter what you do. And he never will refuse to call you, to be kind, or taking a walk with you to listen to your concerns.

The right man has a learning curve

For example, if you say you need to spend time together or need him to stop doing something that is hateful, surely accede to your request because he loves you and does not want to miss.

He will be eager to learn from his mistakes and modify his actions. For example, if he start a friendship with a woman who looks that she has interest in him and you tell him that you don’t like,  the right man will echo your concerns and bring a solution. When debating about obstacles in the relationship, he will try to work to eliminate them. In this sense, for example, he would never admit a substance abuse problem and then refuse to fix it.

He will seek he own solutions

If he has a problem, the perfect man will go to others for help, find resources, have conversations, go to therapy, attend programs-anything that will bring about the changes it needs to produce. Also, pride, laziness and stubbornness will not be obstacles to the taking of necessary measures to eradicate the problems that are making waves in the sea of their relationship. The right man will not attempt to assert his power.

He will not leave you wondering where he is and what he is doing. Nor will leave you waiting only to demonstrate the power over you. Never make you feel that you have to disappear for a few days to regain the power you once had. Even when you have more money, social status and power, not try to make you feel you would be nothing without him.

The perfect man is always willing to include you and not to exclude you. He will want to hear, know your needs and get involved in the decision making process. Because you matter, he did not want to exert undue control over you and oppressive. Also, know that you love him even when you’re in charge.

In relation to who cares  who, who makes decisions and who has the last word, he is always ready to negotiate, because in reality, everything in life must arise due to an agreement.

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Cancel themselves, have a permanent fear of abandonment, need to feel all the time “need” for each other and are considered way of “redemption” of a male usually thoughtless little solidarity, and even violent sometimes.

“Feeling love” for these women is essential for life. His conception of “Love” is delivered by a sense of almost “religious”, sacrifice, and includes permanent doubt on a link insecurities and uncertainties posed permanently.

Unresolved issues for them, not encountered in connection with their original families, these women have established a sense of sacrificial love for a partner. Dependent families, which have seen very painful facts, secrets, abuse, infidelity, in its infancy.

The couple has a love of pattern only for their search in all people: the story of the love of family of origin. Only from there and our relationship with that story, we all learn to find love.

Cancel themselves, have a permanent fear of abandonment, need to feel all the time “need” for each other and are considered way of “redemption” of a male usually thoughtless little solidarity, and even violent sometimes.

“Feeling love” for these women is essential for life. His conception of “Love” is delivered by a sense of almost “religious”, sacrifice, and includes permanent doubt on a link insecurities and uncertainties posed permanently.

Unresolved issues for them, not encountered in connection with their original families, these women have established a sense of sacrificial love for a partner. Dependent families, which have seen very painful facts, secrets, abuse, infidelity, in its infancy.

The couple has a love of pattern only for your search in all people: the story of the love of family of origin. Only from there and our relationship with that story, we all learn to find love.

Getting to that story can stop repeating relationships, always feeling that “this is indeed the man of my life” … because these women are generally found these links with men who are listed as “made for each other” … until it is the same relationship that leads to surface the old-and often unconscious pains primary love, family. These women need to reaffirm their self-love from emotional deprivation.

This is a key to these misguided love. So with men are looking at the other “food” for their own shortcomings, a “food” that has to meet the unsatisfied condition ever.

They are in love if not “feel bad about themselves,” need of being in love or to feel pain after welfare ends sooner or later manifest as a discomfort … and paradoxical. According to educational factors, cultural. These women suffering persist in store for them this pair, or go in search of the next. Hardly recognize that the subject is in them.

“They incapacitate” and need another to feel full sometimes, and others to survive. They generally have histories of more or less significant drop, can this have marked his life, or be a small episode that seemed insignificant, but stained all the experience of contact with others.

They feel that the other “change” through the delivery always carries hes love. Looking for men with various diseases, but generally are barred from a meeting free, full, with others, and especially with them. Among women who have this kind of love, is more than among others, the idea of motherhood as “instinct” as an indispensable mode of execution, and not by choice in life. This is not doubted, and children are often felt as a burden more than these loves.

These romantic relationships:

conclude when the pain becomes intolerable,
repeat them again and again with the same person or different, or
destruction may lead to the psychological and / or physical.
Reversing this story requires deep commitment and full of women who suffers, leave it requires courage.

Ensures a Mexican novelist, that no gentleman will achieve the ability to overcome female persuasion, who becomes so innate. No man, however long or scholarship you have, can never exceed the capacity of seduction woman who acquires this ability innately, as stated in an interview with EFE the mexican Edmundo Gonzalez Llaca.

In his first novel, “Guide seductive with a practical example,” Gonzalez Llaca narrates the experience between a mature man and a teenager in a fun oriented erotic story in which “at any given time the hunter is hunting prey .

By “more experience and erudition” that a man can have, “women have an inborn inclination to seduction, the innate experience seduction, manipulation, control of things, which is far superior to men”, said the author.  “Men, I feel we opened our ability to seduction through life experience. In contrast them bring the hard drive with, “he said.

“In that sense the book is very feminist,” the writer on his “debut” Born with the claim to be an erotic novel. However, the narrative expresses mostly the vision, desire and the logic of a man, a refined seducer who wants to sleep with her goddaughter in her 15th birthday. For the writer, giving life to a male character who lives in a myriad of difficulties for the conquest of the girl, the novel is an “intuitive recognition of female power, you really can beat any man.”

“If you write an erotic book, the commitment is very complex because you have to satisfy an aesthetic feeling, a sexy feeling, and a clear intention to increase the heart rate of the reader, that beaded his forehead, you feel a slight tickle, a excitation in libido. That was my purpose. ” Llaca Gonzalez compares, “With all respect for women”, ways of seducing each other and concludes that they “are a bit like spiders” because they “bring the trap within themselves,” while “men’s we have to invent “.

Despite changes in interpersonal relationships that have introduced new technologies, the writer believes that seduction is still “play games”, a constantly evolving art today where man has lost prominence. “Then as the roles were well defined and now sex and consistencies are not very accurate,” said the writer.

The title, a “guide” somehow mocks the attempt by many to systematize the process of seduction, something the writer believes the impossible. “Americans try to systematize and make an art. They do it at all (…) Here I think the moral or final message is that there are general principles (in the world of seduction) “, but” there are so many random elements that require a very large display of imagination by part of the seducer.

Surprised, he admitted that there is an evolution of the phenomenon so dizzy all the time “instruments of seduction going to fail (…) according to the times, customs, values.

“Now you see young people in the disco and not talk. And at the end you can go to battle hand-to-body. And the seduction of the word is done electronically, “he added. The writer recalled that anyone who moves into the vast field of seduction appears at “a world as incomprehensible as it is human nature (…), as the dynamics of cultures and values.”

Llaca Gonzalez, born in Queretaro, central Mexico, has a law degree from the Universidad Nacional Autonoma de Mexico (UNAM) and a PhD in political science from the University of Paris.

What matters is the inside: “What will the relationship to mature and prosper will be the degree of commitment and emotional maturity on the part of both.

We must keep alive the flame of love, as in any relationship we must ensure that the passion is not depleted. Therefore we must “look what we have in common, or try new things to please them both.” “Share things of both persons, you feel you lack in one and the other over it. Share and enjoy without the absence of the age. ”

Deaf ears: in the beginning you and your partner will be the focus of all eyes and comments. Your best bet is to ignore the negative people who criticize your relationship.

Do you think that age matters in the couple? Leave me your comments, tell me your story!

With the arrival of the children come difficulties in some couples. However, in other strengthens the marriage bond, they adapt self to changes following the arrival of a baby at home and enjoy every stage of life for their children. To avoid unnecessary conflicts in the family, is essential to have an organized family life to facilitate the day to day.
1. Reconcile marriage and children
2. An organized life
3. Attitudes towards children

1. Reconcile marriage and children

Search more time together and make more family  life favors, the union of the couple.
Most marriages today are experiencing a lack of time for everything. Carry such a frantic life that they barely have time to be together and enjoying their children.
The work and the distances of the large cities absorb them all day. This leads to an estrangement between the couple and a lack of family life.
More hours together more and more family life is fundamental to a marriage does not fail.
Weekends are the best way to enjoy the family. We can relax and do activities with children and with our partners. It is very important to make a bit of time to be alone with our partner, the best time is late in the day when children are lying.

2. An organized life

For a marriage not blame their children for lack of time to be together or not all day discussing the everyday things that arise throughout the day as a result of the needs and attention to be devoted to children, they must have a large organization with respect to the time of their children. Establish a schedule of meals, shower and go to bed at a specific time, are rules that parents should enforce mandatory.
Furthermore, in addition to duties as to the times, parents should establish a set of appropriate rules for the age of each child and be rigorous in their enforcement. It is essential that each perform certain tasks such as making your bed, arrange the room, or turn to remove the table, down the garbage, etc.. To know that the house is all one family and that everyone must participate the daily tasks.
These standards greatly facilitate family life and create a pleasant environment for all, enable parents to have a little time each day to be alone and talk.
As a child, is also very positive because this way you know what your obligations are in every moment and what to do.
In compliance with the rules avoids unnecessary discussions and help ensure that children are disciplined and responsible individuals.
Otherwise, if a family with children do not have an organized life, we are faced with a chaotic family in which no one works and which make the family work ahead will be more complicated and difficult. In these cases, marriages tend to blame their children for lack of time and be tired, and you can see in them the cause of their poor relationship and discussions.

3. Attitudes towards children

In many cases, the birth of the children arrive difficulties: increased responsibilities, lack of sleep due to the care to be provided to the baby, the problems in order to balance work and family life, etc.. are factors negatively affecting the lives of a couple and facilitate the discussions.
When children are older, parents must agree on everything about education and not banish before them. If a mother takes all afternoon hoping that her son is taken to dinner, when the father should not give then permission to be left or if one parent punish, the other should not lift the punishment.
These are situations that cause conflicts in the couple and the children get confused as to how they should act.
In other cases, with the arrival of children the marriage is strengthened and that until then had been a couple becomes a family. The arrival of a child involves substantial changes in the couple must live with great enthusiasm and complicity. It is a process they have to adapt.
A child supposed to share concerns, joys, education, challenges, satisfactions, etc.. Ultimately, a series of feelings that no one better than your spouse agrees and understands. Your partner is the best person you enjoy your children. Live with intensity each stage of your children, enjoy and share with your partner and do not forget to take a little time alone to enjoy both.

Source: PULEVA HEALTH
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