Today I read a post from a friend of mine who dated a girl. The girl said that for now only wants friendship. Now he is in fear of falling into what many men think is the most formidable female area.

The “Friend Zone” is the area of good male friends, those buddies brothers whom we confess our secrets and fears as a friend from school and why we feel an affection as if they were our sisters and whom we never go through the mind having a relationship of love and sex with them. According to some people once they fall into this area do not go forever.

I laughed at the things he writes. Many would say that is another language we use to tell a man who does not want anything serious with them. This is partly true, especially if you see the poor gentleman melted by you, and you do not like but do not want to hurt his feelings, but there are situations that you really want to be a friend to learn more about that person.

Each situation is different, man and woman are different. Men! this can also be a sign that says: “Seduce me“!

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How to know if a man likes you

There he is: yes, the man of your dreams. He is sitting diagonally to you, read some notes on a cafeteria table that both frequent. Suddenly, his eyes meet yours. Produced some sparks and then turns his attention to his notes. Did he sent you a signal?

It is not easy to decipher the mind of modern man, but learn to decode what his nonverbal communication really means is a valuable asset in the game of love. Therefore, in order to learn to read well to modern man, consider the following signs.

Signs to know that your man likes you

Leaning towards love
If a man is interested in you, you’ll see that your body will tend to yours. This movement can occur in very subtle or extremely noticeable, it could be almost falling over you. It’s his way of letting you know that you want to be even closer to you. Once your interest is reciprocated, it will be difficult to separate.

Note that a vital aspect of the physical nature of romance is reciprocity. Translation: match their progress with yours. This not only realize your own interests, but will serve to keep his.

The eyes say it all
Surely you’ve heard the old saying “The eyes are the windows to the soul.” If he is interested in you, he focus your eyes and remain in that position. Correspond his eyes with a controlled smile and let them know that you are also interested. Soon he will sit next to you …

Touching is good
If a man is interested, then he wants to be as close as he cans. Also, he will use every chance you get to touch. Possibly your arm, your leg or your knee. What matters really is that contact is made with love. It is simply another way of letting you know he feels something special for you.

“What a coincidence you’re here!”
The matches are not as frequent as they seem. Forget about the chances and focus on the causalities. After all, those “happy accidents” are not so accidental. Perhaps his surprise appearance at your favorite coffee shop is a sign that he is trying to connect with you, but he does not want you think is a stalker. Take this as a positive sign and makes the most of your next meeting. You may find you have more in common than a love of coffee with cream.

Listen carefully
How to know if you have the undivided attention of a man? Very simple: when he is not talking about himself. The next time you’re in a bar, listening carefully to what is said in any table full of men and will not do more than talk about themselves.

For a man to shut your mouth and listen to what you have to say, you know, must be love … or at least, a powerful attraction. When he feels that he has found the right woman, he turns off he’s system and will chatter all ears.

Man participates in your activities
Let’s face at this point: perhaps he’d rather be watching the finals of the soccer championship and even a first round match of tennis masters, but it is important to note those occasions when his interests or passions resigned for escort or share your things.

For example, he’ll feel good to watch the romantic movie you’ve chosen for Saturday night, though he would have liked Hard to Kill 4 -, or will not put a face to accompany you when to the mall to shop. If he prepares popcorn, or if he hold with you to see showcases to look at shoes and handbags, you can give him some extra points.

He laughs with you
Men tend to have a close relationship with sense of humor, and women often complain that they do not take them seriously. In fact, many hate to achieve something funny in every situation. But is he able to laugh with you? Is he able to laugh at your jokes? Do you understand the difference between laughing all the time and laugh with you?

Well, if he laughs when he is on your side, it means that both have a similar sense of humor and, most important, that goes really good with you.

Confidence man
If a man is attracted to you, then he will get nervous when he see you. Her cheeks are rosy and his heart will accelerate as soon as he know he will see you somewhere. Look for signs like unexplained laughter, sweaty palms and nervous movements. Men always want to be in control of his emotions, but women prefer to be in charge.

If he has problems to cope with natural or at least as he always does, possibly because you make him nervous or  generate him a certain state of excitement. What can you do? You’d better help him relax, and he appreciate being a good person in whom you trust.

The feeling is mutual

Men and women have very different brain chemicals. Women are verbal, Men not. Man is dominated by visual desires, while women tend to be by the deepest emotions. Women are taught to express their feelings in a rational way and not feel guilty about cry, while men tend to be more irrational and repressed.

Consequently, it is a highly significant achievement if you get a man to open up and express their emotions. Discuss your feelings is a very powerful common experience, that helps build a relationship and better prepare for whatever challenges the future may present.

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Ensures a Mexican novelist, that no gentleman will achieve the ability to overcome female persuasion, who becomes so innate. No man, however long or scholarship you have, can never exceed the capacity of seduction woman who acquires this ability innately, as stated in an interview with EFE the mexican Edmundo Gonzalez Llaca.

In his first novel, “Guide seductive with a practical example,” Gonzalez Llaca narrates the experience between a mature man and a teenager in a fun oriented erotic story in which “at any given time the hunter is hunting prey .

By “more experience and erudition” that a man can have, “women have an inborn inclination to seduction, the innate experience seduction, manipulation, control of things, which is far superior to men”, said the author.  “Men, I feel we opened our ability to seduction through life experience. In contrast them bring the hard drive with, “he said.

“In that sense the book is very feminist,” the writer on his “debut” Born with the claim to be an erotic novel. However, the narrative expresses mostly the vision, desire and the logic of a man, a refined seducer who wants to sleep with her goddaughter in her 15th birthday. For the writer, giving life to a male character who lives in a myriad of difficulties for the conquest of the girl, the novel is an “intuitive recognition of female power, you really can beat any man.”

“If you write an erotic book, the commitment is very complex because you have to satisfy an aesthetic feeling, a sexy feeling, and a clear intention to increase the heart rate of the reader, that beaded his forehead, you feel a slight tickle, a excitation in libido. That was my purpose. ” Llaca Gonzalez compares, “With all respect for women”, ways of seducing each other and concludes that they “are a bit like spiders” because they “bring the trap within themselves,” while “men’s we have to invent “.

Despite changes in interpersonal relationships that have introduced new technologies, the writer believes that seduction is still “play games”, a constantly evolving art today where man has lost prominence. “Then as the roles were well defined and now sex and consistencies are not very accurate,” said the writer.

The title, a “guide” somehow mocks the attempt by many to systematize the process of seduction, something the writer believes the impossible. “Americans try to systematize and make an art. They do it at all (…) Here I think the moral or final message is that there are general principles (in the world of seduction) “, but” there are so many random elements that require a very large display of imagination by part of the seducer.

Surprised, he admitted that there is an evolution of the phenomenon so dizzy all the time “instruments of seduction going to fail (…) according to the times, customs, values.

“Now you see young people in the disco and not talk. And at the end you can go to battle hand-to-body. And the seduction of the word is done electronically, “he added. The writer recalled that anyone who moves into the vast field of seduction appears at “a world as incomprehensible as it is human nature (…), as the dynamics of cultures and values.”

Llaca Gonzalez, born in Queretaro, central Mexico, has a law degree from the Universidad Nacional Autonoma de Mexico (UNAM) and a PhD in political science from the University of Paris.